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The Realms of Your Kingdom
There are many areas of our lives that attribute to feeling whole and balanced.
Being fulfilled, feeling complete and working towards feeling whole, isn't referring to "finishing it all today" and then you're done! Forgive the simplicity, but Life is about Living ... each moment and day to day.
It's sad but true that too many people function on autopilot. They get to the end of their day and plonk into their bed, knowing that it's their bed, yet feeling, "This is Not My Life!"
Many feel like a pawn in somebody else's game and are not quite sure who is the King of the Castle.
You Are the Centre of Your Universe!
In my Kingdom, I am the Queen of my castle! Likewise, you are the Queen or King of your castle! In fact, you are the centre of the universe ... your universe! It's true! You are!
Although you can be compassionate, empathetic or sympathetic, the eyes you look through are yours. The feelings that you feel, even if provoked by another, are felt by you. The taste buds that take pleasure in a meal are on your tongue. The body that you feel is satisfied or hungry is yours.
How you feel about your career are your feelings. Even if swayed by the opinion of others, they are ultimately under your control. While one sees the rain as annoying, another may see it as refreshing and welcomed. You can choose to find the beauty in things and keep walking along a path. You can also make changes and walk on a different path! The journey is yours.
This is Your Kingdom, and you are at the centre of it.
From writers and musicians to motivational speakers and spiritual leaders, there's a reason why so many remind us that the Joy is in the Journey. Despite that we want to reach a destination or have a possession, we naturally want the experience of a purchase or the movements of a trip to be pleasurable. Keeping this in mind, it make sense that regardless of the thing, we want to find enjoyment in every moment of it ... actually, in everything and every day.
These philosophers remind us that there are many aspects to life, both tangible and intangible, and that we can truly enjoy life holistically, when we discover the beauty in each area of our lives.
Thinking Inside Out
What do you love? What do you desire for your life? You have the answers ... Look within!
The chart below reminds us that no one aspect or no one person 'completes' us. When we seek fulfilment in every aspect, rather than place all our focus on just one realm, it makes for a more 'complete' life ... a happier life. Plus there's less intensity of a freak out ... you know what I mean!
Fulfilment is about filling your life with joy! Within each Kingdom, there are many realms, areas, rooms, doors ... and you hold the key to them all!
The Main Areas of Our Life … Looking on the Outside In
1. Inner Me - Emotional & Spiritual Wellbeing - Personal Development
2. Outer Me - Physical Body that is required for the Physical Realm
3. Family & Home - People & Place with whom the Bond is Deepest
4. Friends & Fun – Social Life, Community & Kindred Connections
5. Partner in Love - Love Relationship – Romantic Commitment
6. Money & Finances – The Funds to Buy Needs & Desires
7. Career, Work or Path – Employment & Calling
8. Passion & Interests - What Excites & Motivates You?
A Quick Peak inside
Life Has Many Paths & Doorways & Realms
As Children of the Earth, we may visit and frolic within the Kingdom of others and welcome others to enjoy the treasures of our own. Thus the area of friendship is one of our realms. We are Goddesses and Gods, because we create life and many play in the realm of parenthood. As women and men, we revel in the realm of Romance and Love. As Artisans, we create our lives, from our careers to our castles and all the art that hang on its walls ... you get the picture.
If You Can Picture It, You Can Create It
Every creation starts with imagination. Every adventure starts with a dream. Anyone who enjoys a vacation, not only wants to enjoy where they are staying, but also loves the adventure towards the destination. We hope to return home with many stories and loads of memories. Likewise, when that vacation is complete, it doesn't mean you'll never want to go on another vacation. We can feel fulfilled and whole and still have so much more we want to achieve. Nobody decides to eat in one day, all the food they will eat in their lifetime. You might laugh and say you know some people who try, but we all know that no body can fit that much in their guts!
More than one piece please!
Overindulging in one area or neglecting an area, will affect the others. When we are happy in a relationship, it doesn't mean that being happy within ourselves is no longer important. A great couple is two great people, not two halves. When we fall in love with someone, they are not the final destination, we want to continue our adventure with them.
Once we become parents, we do not cease to become a woman or a man. We are still a partner, a friend, a sibling or a student. Children feel frustrated when they are your only focus. Plus they aspire to parents who continue to evolve themselves.
You might not be the ruler of your place of employment, but you totally rule the way you shine there. Your enjoyment, your attitude and your qualities are within that realm and you are the ruler of those. You might love your job or your weekend sport team, but it doesn't mean you love your family or friends any less.
Whether human or animal, most beings want more than one room in their dwelling. I don't know about you, but I'm glad my kitchen and bathroom are in different areas! Even domestic cats and dogs want more than one area to rest, play and poop.
Abraham-Hicks, founders of the Law of Attraction, say that as our path is continually evolving, a great way to manifest what you desire into your life is to maintain a vibrational frequency of feeling "satisfied and eager for more". A mind that easily finds appreciation for the things we do have, ignites the frequency of abundance within. This vibrates from the inside-out, which is the positive energy to create and attract the things we desire in all areas of our life.
If you are feeling lost or stuck in any areas of your life and wish to book a Private Session, you can contact me at Butterflynett or email annette.erica@outlook.com
I am Annette, the founder of Butterflynett. I take a holistic approach in my private sessions, because we all have many aspects that make us who we are. I respect my clients as individuals and honour that they are the centre of their universe. I will connect with you personal needs & goals, using a combination of techniques from Holistic Counselling, Goddess Life Coaching, Shamanic Studies and energy work.
It is my mission to provide you with tips, techniques and tools for being the best version of you.
At the Butterflynett, we assist you to reclaim sovereignty of your life. We guide you to step into your power, honour the strengths within and assist you to create the life you desire.
It's Time to Reclaim Your Crown!
